Jab shadi or rukhsati ho gayi or dulhan ko shohar apne makan par le aaya,
to ab yakinan unme khalwat or tanhayi hogi.
is silsile me kuch aadab o usul or kuch bate jaan lena zaruri he.
Dulha or dulhan ko chahye k rukhsati (shadi) se pehle wala din is tarah na guzare k bilkul thake huwe ho or aaram ka koi moqa na mila ho balke din me moqa nikal kar kuch waqt aaram kar lena chahye. Take dono ki mulaqat k waqt tabiat chusti, inbisat or badan me tazgi ho.